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cancer update

The Most Comfortable Bra Made For Any Breast Including Mastectomy

The Perfect Bra Made For Any Breast Including Mastectomy
Bra: c/o Sophia Rose Intimates (20% off with code ‘WELOVERACH’)
Sweatpants: Uniqlo
Cami: Target

I will admit that pre breast cancer diagnosis, I never really cared about my bra. As long as it was on sale, I’d buy a few and that would be that. That mentality was because I was small chested. I was a 32A and still couldn’t fill in the bra. So as long as my chest was covered, I was fine. I actually embraced my small chest.

Sophia Rose Bra

Sophia Rose Bra: The Most Comfortable Bra Made For Any Breast Including Mastectomy

My Reconstruction

My mentality about having good support changed after my bilateral mastectomy and reconstruction. In fact, my breast went from a 32A to a 32C. Many have asked me if I requested to go larger, and the answer is no I didn’t. As I mentioned above, I loved my small chest and didn’t care to go bigger. So when my plastic surgeon asked me what size of implants I wanted, I told her whatever will retain the size I have. However, they didn’t make implants as small as mine (go figure haha!). So she suggested to go with 250cc. That size happened to be one of the smallest and also filled in as much space as possible post-surgery to avoid having any saggy or loose skin.


About My Mastectomy

If you’re not familiar with mastectomies, here’s a little background about mine. First of all, it should not ever be used synonymously with breast augmentation. They are two completely DIFFERENT surgeries. Definitely a major pet peeve when my mastectomy with immediate reconstruction is compared to a “boob job”.

For my surgery, they took out everything in the chest area: breast tissues, nerves, and muscle (can you see how that is different from a breast augmentation?). Fortunately, they were able to spare the nipple and skin due to good margins. However, when all of the aforementioned was taken out, the 250cc implants were needed to fill in the empty space and provide a proper fit with the spared skin. Therefore, I woke up 9 hours later with a 32C.

Sophia Rose Bra for mastectomy

After my foobies healed and I was given the okay to wear normal bras, I noticed I struggled finding the right bra. What I thought worked, didn’t. I noticed the wires were cutting into my implants, the band was too snug, and there was an abundance of push-up bras (which I didn’t think I needed anymore). The only type of bra that I felt was the most comfortable was bralettes. I love bralettes! Unfortunately, they didn’t provide the coverage and support I needed.

The Most Comfortable Bra

This bra is made for any breast

It wasn’t until I went to the Young Survival Coalition Summit in March that I learned there are several assistance and support groups for women who were and are diagnosed with breast cancer. By learning about those groups, I felt a huge weight was lifted off of my shoulders. It was here that I learned about Sophia Rose Intimates.

Sophia Rose Bra for mastectomy

I was initially drawn by the blush color and lace fabric. So beautiful! It wasn’t until I found the courage to speak with Sophia Rose co-founders, Adelene and Carolyn, that I TRULY learned about the line. Sophia Rose intimates was inspired by the journey of breast cancer survivors. The journey is close to home for them because their mother is a breast cancer survivor and they saw first hand the frustration with shopping for a bra after a mastectomy. They noticed the options were limited and the styles & aesthetic didn’t always make women feel beautiful.

Therefore, they decided to change that and create a line that meets the needs of women post-mastectomy. Actually, the needs of any type of breast: mastectomy, reconstruction, natural breast, or anything in between while maintaining an elegant and beautiful collection.  Basically, a lingerie line that makes women feel beautiful. When going through cancer, sometimes feeling beautiful or feeling yourself is hard. For me, it was hard to feel beautiful. I didn’t feel feminine. The changes all over your body make it hard to feel like it is your own.

Why Sophia Rose?

Sophia Rose Bra for MastectomyWhen I tried on a Sophia Rose bra at the YSC Summit, I was amazed!! I was blown away by how comfortable the bra was! It felt as comfortable (if not more) as a bralette while providing maximum support. I was jumping for joy that I found the right bra. I can walk around all day in their bras and still feel comfortable. It’s so soft and cozy.

I also loved the style and look of the collection. The colors (bright peony and deep violet) are so pretty! The scallop lining and lace fabric are so feminine. Although no one would ever see these garments, I felt so feminine. It gave me some confidence and that helped me feel beautiful.
One of the main reasons why I think their bras are so comfortable is because the bra is wireless. This means no-dig band. Below is a more detailed description on the construction of Sophia Rose Intimates.

Comfortable Mastectomy bra


Optimized for Comfort

Sophia Rose Optimized for Comfort


Designed for Beauty

Sophia Rose Designed for Beauty


Engineered for Support

Bra Engineered for Support

This is seriously the perfect bra! Without a doubt it is worth trying out. So if you are considering it, try it out for 20% off by using the code ‘WELOVERACH‘. This is such a great deal and I promise you, you will love it!

Their sizing is a little different, so I highly recommend that you follow their bra sizing guide. They carry the sizes 34B, 34C, 34D, 36C, 36D, 38B, 38C, and 38D.  If none of these sizes are yours, no worries! . Remember how I mentioned I’m a 32C? Well this means I fit in their 34B bra and it fits perfectly! If you have any questions about sizing,  you can contact them at [email protected]. 


Made for Mastectomy

 

Bra Made for Mastectomy

Aside from comfort and support, this Sophia Rose bra is also made for women who only underwent a mastectomy (bilateral or unilateral). Therefore, their bras have pockets for breast prosthesis. They also offer a breast form size guide as well!

As I previously mentioned, if you are not ready to pay full price, you can get it for 20% off. Just make sure you use the code ‘WELOVERACH’.


Afterthoughts on the Journey with My Body

The Perfect Bra Made For Any Breast Including MastectomyYou probably noticed I am exposing quite a bit of skin in these photos. Since this brand is also about feeling beautiful, I wanted to show you guys that I felt so beautiful in this line that I felt comfortable showing some skin! However, it did take me a long time to get to this point. It’s not always easy feeling good in my own skin and it took a lot of work to get to this point.

Cancer treatments and the journey take a toll on you physically and mentally.  I definitely will share more about this when I am ready. I’m almost there but not quite. I still need to feel comfortable sharing those details. But I wanted to share with you guys that although I’m not 100%, the fact that I can feel this way again is a good sign and is good progress. Just wanted to share this with you guys and let you guys know I am getting there. 🙂

xo RD

 

June 28, 2017 | 69 Comments

Comments

  1. June 28, 2017 at 10:24 am

    How interesting!! Such a useful product! Thanks for sharing!
    xx
    Mónica Sors
    NEW POST: MES VOYAGES A PARIS

    Reply
    • June 29, 2017 at 12:47 pm

      Thanks Monica! Hope you find it helpful!

      Reply
  2. June 28, 2017 at 10:41 am

    Thanks for sharing. More women should know of such a product.

    Reply
    • June 29, 2017 at 12:47 pm

      Thank you Wambui! I agree!

      Reply
  3. June 28, 2017 at 1:36 pm

    Love the sweatpants.
    http://www.rsrue.blogspot.com

    Reply
    • June 29, 2017 at 12:48 pm

      Thanks Regine!

      Reply
  4. June 28, 2017 at 2:11 pm

    I bet this post is going to be so helpful to so many people. This is the type of thing you don't even think about having to deal with when you begin the battle of breast cancer.

    Amy Ann
    Straight A Style

    Reply
    • June 29, 2017 at 12:49 pm

      I hope so! I'm trying to turn my experience into something positive. Thank you Amy Ann!

      Reply
  5. June 28, 2017 at 2:27 pm

    I'm glad you're making progress and how incredibly great to share this so others can be inspired and know they will feel good again. A beautiful collection shared by a most beautiful gal!! xo

    Reply
    • June 29, 2017 at 12:49 pm

      Thank you so much Andrea! You've been so awesome!

      Reply
  6. June 28, 2017 at 3:14 pm

    What an interesting post! Hope you are feeling well and healthy. Best https://lachicadelamaleta.com/

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    • June 29, 2017 at 12:51 pm

      Thank you so much! I'm feeling better, still needs work but I am getting there 🙂

      Reply
  7. June 28, 2017 at 3:44 pm

    Rach,
    What a wonderful thing to share! You are so strong, and look so beautiful in these photos! I love the blush pink color as well!

    xoxo,
    Vanessa
    http://www.whatwouldvwear.com/

    Reply
    • June 29, 2017 at 12:52 pm

      Thank you so much Vanessa! This means so much!

      Reply
  8. June 28, 2017 at 4:55 pm

    First of all I just love your approach and your courage. I didn't know that you had a mastectomy, your foobies look really natural. And foobies is just a genius world!

    XoXo,

    Tamara – LoveofMode.com

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    • June 29, 2017 at 2:51 pm

      Thank you so much Tamara! I had it about 10 months ago. Haha thanks! Thought I'd add a little humor!

      Reply
  9. June 28, 2017 at 5:10 pm

    I love lace bras; this one is so cute!

    Reply
    • June 29, 2017 at 2:51 pm

      Thanks Amanda!

      Reply
  10. June 28, 2017 at 7:10 pm

    These photos are so lovely. It's so nice that you've found a bra that works for you after your surgery. And I didn't know people thought mastectomies were the same as augmentations. They're completely different!

    Reply
    • June 29, 2017 at 2:52 pm

      It drives me nuts when people make that comparison! Thanks for understanding!

      Reply
  11. June 28, 2017 at 7:12 pm

    So glad you found a bra that worked well for you after your surgery! Thanks for explaining the differences between a mastectomy and breast augmentation too. That was really interesting to read, since I have never learned that before! I never really cared about my bra before, but now I'm thinking that maybe I should!!

    Kim
    Simply Lovebirds

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    • June 29, 2017 at 2:53 pm

      I'm glad I did too! Unfortunately, people assume that since implants are involved they assume it is the same as boob job. Thanks so much for taking the time to read. If you ever try this bra, please let me know!

      Reply
  12. June 28, 2017 at 7:46 pm

    Love that blush lace one!

    xo megan

    Reply
    • June 29, 2017 at 2:53 pm

      Thanks Megan!

      Reply
  13. June 28, 2017 at 10:34 pm

    It's so important to have a comfy bra. Most of mine aren't and this sucks.
    And an other great Thing is, that These bras look so cute and yet classy.
    lovely.

    with love your AMELY ROSE

    Reply
    • June 29, 2017 at 2:54 pm

      It really is! I hope you give Sophia Rose a chance! I think you'd really like it and the comfort is amazing!

      Reply
  14. June 28, 2017 at 10:59 pm

    These look so so comfy! You look wonderful!

    Reply
    • June 29, 2017 at 2:54 pm

      Thanks Annie!

      Reply
  15. June 28, 2017 at 11:48 pm

    Been looking for comfortable and breathable underwear for this hot summer. Will give it try for sure! Thanks for the review!

    Julia || Closet de Jules || Recent Post – Diamond Head Hawaii Travel Guide

    Reply
    • June 29, 2017 at 2:55 pm

      Thanks Julia! Let me know what you think!

      Reply
  16. June 29, 2017 at 12:20 am

    I wouldn't even have thought about this as part of the journey! These bras are beautiful and what a great brand story!

    Nicole
    Nicole to the Nines

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    • July 1, 2017 at 11:32 am

      I did't either until now! Thanks Nicole!

      Reply
  17. June 29, 2017 at 3:18 am

    Finding the perfect undergarment is key for me too. I guess it should be the case for all women!

    Jessica | notjessfashion.com

    Reply
    • July 1, 2017 at 11:32 am

      Totally agree!

      Reply
  18. June 29, 2017 at 3:33 am

    what a great post! thank you for sharing!

    Reply
    • July 1, 2017 at 11:32 am

      Thanks Kelsey!

      Reply
  19. June 29, 2017 at 1:38 pm

    This post is so beautiful! Not only do I love the stunning bras, but I love your courage in sharing your journey and your body! It shows your beauty on the inside as well as the outside! You're an amazing individual, and I admire you so much!

    Reply