Top: Loft (old), similar here, here, and here
Wide-Leg Pants: Everlane
Rattan Mules: Dolce Vita
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Why I Invest In Myself
So there are things I do, or more like I buy, that I invest in myself. As you all may know (if not, you will know now haha), I truly believe in financial responsibility. You can definitely splurge but also should be able to pay off your splurge and fixed expenses by end of the month. I’m all about using your money wisely.
When people say investment, we think about money growing or getting a good pay out later down the road i.e. 401K, buying a house, etc. But today’s post is a little different. I’m talking about ways I invest in myself. Which means, these are considered a splurge and not necessarily economically wise, but the return on my mental health and confidence outweighs the cost. Which is why I call it an investment in myself.
Putting It In Perspective
Some people are afraid to spend money on themselves. Let me tell you, it is healthy. Just understand your limits. Or know that maybe you can do this at a specific frequency or ensure when you do your budget that you include your ‘investment in myself’ expense.
These expenses really help me just overall feel good about myself and build my confidence. Some I do once in awhile and some I do monthly. I also know other expenses I would have to give up in order for me to afford this.
Here Are My Self-Care Splurges
The 4 Ways
Personal training / Personal boxing
I put personal training and personal boxing together because overall it is a one-on-one workout that requires a specialized fitness trainer. I love working out and I love how it makes me feel. But sometimes I need that push or need to learn new ways to keep my muscles guessing and gain new ones. This is definitely a pricey one and I try to book sets of sessions whenever I can afford it.
Acupuncture
I have talked about acupuncture more in my Instagram Stories. I started going this year and now I understand why my oncologist recommended it. It has helped with my cancer treatment side effects, anxiety, headaches, muscle soreness, joint aches and when I’m sick. In order for acupuncture to be effective, I have to consistently go in. FYI, if you are interested in going to acupuncture, I highly recommend checking your insurance if they cover this service. If not, also check with your HSA / FSA account to see if it is an eligible expense. Definitely helps!
Lash Lift
I miss my lashes (before cancer). Ever since chemo, my lashes have never been the same. And my eyelashes used to give me confidence. Even if no one else cares for them or doesn’t notice them, having them long and curly for me to see overall gives me a boost of confidence. I can’t do anything about it naturally being long again (none of the stuff works for me) and using an eyelash curler breaks my lashes and I lose them all over again. So I get a lash lift which basically keeps my lashes curled for 6 weeks, and a really good mascara. I love love love ILIA’s limitless mascara. Basically the best thing ever! And they use clean ingredients!
Skincare Products
Really taking care of my skin is so important. Unfortunately, I’m unlucky and genetically do not have great skin. I am acne-prone, dry, and uneven skin tone. So my skin requires a little more love. I also don’t really wear makeup much (my makeup routine takes 5 minutes) or I prefer makeup free. So I definitely want to make sure my skin is at its best. Some of the products that are great with skin come at a price. But if I feel good, I almost always perform at my best.
What about you? What are things you do or spend on to invest in yourself?
xo RD
You look so cute and such a great read!
xx- Nina
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Thanks Nina!
Beautiful look.
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Thank you Regine!
A good skincare regimine has been my favorite way to invest in myself lately! I need to try acupuncture next. Love this oufit, too!
Rachel
http://www.hello-her.com
Omg I think you’d love acupuncture!!
You have such a great way to invest in yourself. I do the same for years and going on massage, buy books, fragrances or skin care products, many little thing that helps me to feel better.
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Aww I love to hear that you do this for yourself!
I’ve been wanting to try acupuncture! I currently see an osteopath and a holistic doctor which are both out of pocket.
Jennifer
Effortlessly Sophisticated
It’s so worth going! Highly recommend it!
This is a great post & it’s so important to invest in treating yourself. I have been loving semi-regular salt baths lately, it’s a time investment but having time to just be present is necessary! x Shannon • http://www.essellesse.com
It totally is! A salt bath definitely sounds wonderful!
It’s so important to invest in yourself and treat yourself! This was such a great post to read! Thanks for sharing! Beautiful photos, as well! 🙂
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Thank you so much Melissa!
First, I love your Loft top! OK, I would love to try acupuncture. I invest in myself with my skincare and my workouts and my dip manicures, lol. I would consider more options though because investing in your personal care is highly important.
Thank you Cheryl! I love investing my money on workouts. It’s so rewarding!
I love these ways to invest in yourself! I feel the same way – except now I need to look into acupuncture! I currently invest in barre classes, chiropractor appointments, and getting manicures!
Thank you Anna! Acupuncture is so beneficial! Those are great things to invest on yourself!
I want to try a lash lift and tint!! I don’t like spending a lot of time on makeup each morning and I think this would be great!
-Morgan
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Oo I think you will definitely love a lash lift!
I am HERE for this- investing in ourselves is so key. Your 4-step approach is so well-rounded, too! I’ve always wanted to try acupuncture- I’m so glad it has helped you!
-Ashley
Le Stylo Rouge
Right?! Omg I love going to acupuncture!
Investing in oneself is the best investment ever. I have to try Acupuncture. Love your outfit as always.
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It totally is the best investment ever!
Yes, girl! Treat yourself! Honestly, I might treat myself to those wide leg pants from Everlane. So cute!
Yesss girl!!
These are good ways to practice self care too! It’s good to prioritise our health and well being – we need to be the best versions of ourselves so we are fully recharged and ready to give to others I think!
Hope that your week is going well! 🙂
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Yes I totally agree Mica!
I like that your investments for yourself aren’t all just objects of some sort. Boxing and personal training is definitely something worth splurging on because it’s good for your body. Acupuncture is helpful for mind AND body. Lash lifts are a serious confidence booster, and of course skincare is necessary for every person! Great great things to invest in!
Aw thanks for recognizing this Stephanie!
I love this! I think it’s super important to invest in yourself! Taking care of yourself is not selfish, and it shouldn’t be seen as such! Treat yo-self girl!
Exactly! Thanks Laura!
Love this post, I think self care and self investment is so important! Love getting my lashes done too, I feel like a whole new woman when I do!
Kileen
cute & little
Same girl! haha!
Couldn’t agree more with your tips dear, especially the last two. Anyway, that’s such a cute combo you have here dear! Love the details of your top, so pretty on you!
Jessica | notjessfashion.com
Thank you so much Jessica!
With you on all of these except the acupuncture – I have never tried that. I do however want to start getting facials more often. Think that’s a great way to invest in myself and have some great down time. Love your look here too Rach!
xo Laura Leigh
http://www.louellareese.com
Omg I need to invest in facials more. They really are amazing!
I agree with what you said Rach. I also believe in investing in oneself. We all deserve it and there is a certain confidence and happiness that it brings. My husband has back pains, do you think acupuncture would help? He normally does deep tissue massage but sometimes it only helps a little. I am also considering lash lifts because my eye lashes are just so straight and short and to be honest, it’s frustrating! But in the meantime, I invest in food and gym. I hope you had a great weekend and happy Monday!
Maureen | http://www.littlemisscasual.com
Glad you see my point of view. I’ve heard that acupuncture can work with back pains. Before going, I recommend your husband checks with your doctor. I would not have tried acupuncture if it wasn’t my oncologist’s suggestions. Omg, you will love lash lift! Makes such a difference. I also recommend that you find a reliable salon. My first time was awful and I just went with whatever salon offered it. Research is so important!
There are definitely some things I splurge on for myself as well! Self care is so important.
Yay glad to hear!
Investing in ourselves is so key. Your 4-step approach is so well-rounded, too. I agree with what you said Rach. I also believe in investing in oneself. We all deserve it and there is a certain confidence and happiness that it brings. , I think self-care and self-investment are so important! Love getting my lashes done too, I feel like a whole new woman when I do! You have such a great way to invest in yourself.
Thank you so much!!! I’m so glad to hear you agree!